Ok! You must be wondering why I am telling you story of some serial... The serial is about relationships and changing phases in a person’s life. How an elder bro gets jealous when mum loves ray more. How Debra gets angry when ray’s mum interferes in there life.. I think these characters and topics of every episode resemble your life.
Coming straight to the point..
Few weeks back there was this episode in which Debra gets new hair cut and ray doesn’t even notice the change she tries every possible thing to give him hint so that he says something... But unfortunately he does not and goes for a toss... Seeing that episode I said to hubby dear how is this possible. He also agreed to me.
But the same thing happened to me today... I got a new hair cut n was desperately waiting for hubby dear to come home so that I can show it to him… I didn’t even tell him on ph so that get gets surprised or shocked... But unfortunately he didn’t even notice it... He came sat on the couch took TV remote and switched the TV channel. I gave him his cup of coffee and fruits still he didn’t realise I had a new hair cut... I didn’t say anything.
I was standing in kitchen thinking, this is the guy I loved like crazy and after 3yrs of our married life I still love him the same or even more …. But my better half doesn’t have time to look at me... I use to always feel my relationship with my hubby will always be the same. We were best of frds he use recognize by my voice if I was sad or angry. Today when I am his wife have things really changed or it’s just that I think too much...
Its 11 Pm in the night hubby dear is fast asleep and me writing this down… Sometime or I should say many times I note down my heart but just cant post it.. Being the only child I don’t have habit of sharing my feelings... I guess I should try really hard speaking my heart out to hubby dear tomorrow... May be I expect just too much and I should think from his point of view also... It is possible that he must be tried or office tensions are keeping his eyes off me..
Anyways got to sleep its too late … Too many things to say … But I have to get up at 6 in the morning to make a cup of coffee for hubby dear…
Take care friends… See u later…
Tomorrow my hubby is going to repent for what he did today... Will update tomorrow what all happened…
C yaaaaaaaaaaaa gut night…
2 comments:
Koolkap....ofcourse relationships not only change after marriage, they also grow. Yes, he didnot notice you, happens to all of us...one does take the other for granted in relationships. Have you read Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus....it shall make sense, and also make you laugh..so true to life it is.Nice post.
Poonam Jee.. I just love that book... I know he loves me a lot.. but at times I miss the chemistry we use to have b4 wedding... post shadi things have changed n I know its for good... miss those good old days..He use to tell me u are looking good @ 7 in the evening when I was dead tired after work... just to make me smile.. now when he returns home in the evening all he says "is my coffee ready" :-(
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